think about your burial

today I want to make a suggestion: why not think of what you would like your funeral to be like and tell people close to you. that way, in case it happens that one dies, people know already what to do which is a big help in a difficult mourning time.

me personally, I would like the following song to be played:
Gin Wigmore, Dying day (from album Holy Smoke)

I found, that some people find it okay if you ask them to tell you what they would like. but others are totally blocking even the thought of it. which is a pity, because that it will happen is the only certain thing in life.

when a friend of mine died, her sister found it extremely helpful that she had left a will in which there was also some notes on how she wanted to be buried and where and how she imagined her wake.

so, why not give it a thought and make your afterlife easier for your loved ones still alive by then and struggling with worldly tasks.